Hello Harald,
Thank you for your responses. I'll change configs with slot-overlapping but looks like I'm quite far from getting it to work.
Today I found that I have "kernel: wct4xxp 0000:03:02.0: Interrupts not detected." in syslog. This line was visible only if I load modules manually (not via systemctl start dahdi)
I heard that it happens on some hardware with Digium cards, I'll try tomorrow to change PCI slot to avoid sharing one IRQ with USB devices, maybe disable USB at all. If it doesn't help, I'll try a new server with different HW.
Now it seems a root cause of the most of problems with communication between BSC and BTS